做有格局的父母：三不说，三不帮，三不惯
<p style="outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);visibility: visible;margin-bottom: 0px;"><span leaf="">作为孩子一生中最重要的人，父母的眼界和格局，影响着孩子的成长和幸福。做有格局的父母，要在孩子成长过程中做到“三不说、三不帮、三不惯”。具体有哪些做法呢？一起来看——</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p><section style="display: flex;width: 100%;flex-flow: column;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="z-index: 1;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;justify-content: center;display: flex;flex-flow: row;margin: 10px 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;width: auto;min-width: 5%;max-width: 100%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;align-self: flex-end;margin: 0px -8px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section 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auto;background-repeat: repeat;background-attachment: scroll;padding: 0px;background-size: 60.6645% !important;background-position: -2.10118% 38.0345% !important;box-sizing: border-box;background-image: url(https://bbs.221700.com/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/8QE6ibFHJYQ5wPBxavR48Cia4lhMjZiasdnF6IePSAWZguAs4ibRoeBOfsPZOXIhL8ugCYF3xllQiajLCfdzsicbCV6w/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg);"><section style="justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;margin: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;align-self: center;flex: 0 0 auto;min-width: 5%;max-width: 100%;height: auto;padding: 0px 7px 0px 12px;border-style: solid;border-width: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(255, 148, 148);box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">三不说</span></strong></p></section><section style="margin: -11px 0px 0px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100%;height: 5px;background-color: rgba(255, 148, 148, 0.4);box-sizing: border-box;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;" role="img" aria-label="插图"></svg></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;align-self: center;flex: 0 0 auto;min-width: 5%;max-width: 100%;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 29px;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;" nodeleaf=""></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section data-cacheurl="" data-remoteid="" style="text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;margin: 0px;width: 100%;align-self: flex-start;background-size: 60.6645%;background-repeat: repeat;background-position: -2.10118% 38.0345%;background-attachment: scroll;padding: 20px 23px 11px;box-sizing: border-box;background-image: url(https://bbs.221700.com/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/8QE6ibFHJYQ5wPBxavR48Cia4lhMjZiasdnF6IePSAWZguAs4ibRoeBOfsPZOXIhL8ugCYF3xllQiajLCfdzsicbCV6w/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg);"><section style="text-align: justify;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">1、不说互相埋怨的话</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">生活中，有的父母总是不停地在孩子面前埋怨对方，出现问题时经常在孩子面前互相指责。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">这些小抱怨、小争吵，对于大人来说可能只是一种情绪宣泄，而对幼小的孩子来说，就会感到恐惧和无所适从。在总是“家庭内耗”的环境中，孩子容易变得胆小怯懦，不敢表达自己的意见，遇到问题时也不知道该如何解决。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">有格局的父母，会表达自己的情绪，但不会情绪化地表达。遇到问题时，他们不会在孩子面前互相指责、推卸责任，而是一起商量，努力寻找解决问题的方法。有这样的父母作为榜样，孩子才会成长为一个情绪稳定、敢于担当的人。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">2、不说打击孩子的话</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">孩子兴高采烈地展示自己的画，却换来父母一句：“这哪里好看？看看隔壁家的孩子，都得奖了”；孩子成绩进步了，父母却因为怕孩子骄傲，故意说：“这才考了几分就骄傲自满，你还差得远呢！”</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">父母是孩子人生路上的第一个榜样，每个孩子都希望得到父母的肯定和认可。如果总是打击、挖苦孩子，只能养出一个越来越沉默的孩子。如果父母能看到孩子的闪光点，哪怕一点小进步，都能及时鼓励和表扬，就能激发孩子的自驱力，孩子也会越来越自信。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">有格局的父母，懂得为孩子鼓掌。因为他们知道，父母的欣赏和鼓励，是孩子一生的底气。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">3、不说让孩子感到“亏欠”的话</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">有的父母为了让孩子“懂事”，会故意说一些让孩子感到“亏欠”的话：“妈妈一口都没吃，全留给你吃了”“要不是为了你，爸爸不会这么累”“都是因为你，我们才这么辛苦”……</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">这些父母的出发点本身是好的，想让孩子知道父母的不易，珍惜现在的幸福生活。然而，如果父母总是过分强调孩子“亏欠”自己，孩子或许会越来越“懂事”，但内心却有着深深的“内疚感”和“负罪感”。这种内心的愧疚和匮乏，会让孩子长大后经常有“不配得感”，很难认可自己的价值，享受美好的生活。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">有格局的父母，会给孩子提供一个丰盈的精神世界，和孩子一起成长，彼此陪伴。</span></p></section></section><section 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border-box;"><section data-cacheurl="" data-remoteid="" style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;background-repeat: repeat;background-attachment: scroll;padding: 0px;background-size: 60.6645% !important;background-position: -2.10118% 38.0345% !important;box-sizing: border-box;background-image: url(https://bbs.221700.com/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/8QE6ibFHJYQ5wPBxavR48Cia4lhMjZiasdnF6IePSAWZguAs4ibRoeBOfsPZOXIhL8ugCYF3xllQiajLCfdzsicbCV6w/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg);"><section style="justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;margin: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;align-self: center;flex: 0 0 auto;min-width: 5%;max-width: 100%;height: auto;padding: 0px 7px 0px 12px;border-style: solid;border-width: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(255, 148, 148);box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">三不帮</span></strong></p></section><section style="margin: -11px 0px 0px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100%;height: 5px;background-color: rgba(255, 148, 148, 0.4);box-sizing: border-box;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;" role="img" aria-label="插图"></svg></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;align-self: center;flex: 0 0 auto;min-width: 5%;max-width: 100%;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 29px;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;" nodeleaf=""></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section data-cacheurl="" data-remoteid="" style="text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;margin: 0px;width: 100%;align-self: flex-start;background-size: 60.6645%;background-repeat: repeat;background-position: -2.10118% 38.0345%;background-attachment: scroll;padding: 20px 23px 11px;box-sizing: border-box;background-image: url(https://bbs.221700.com/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/8QE6ibFHJYQ5wPBxavR48Cia4lhMjZiasdnF6IePSAWZguAs4ibRoeBOfsPZOXIhL8ugCYF3xllQiajLCfdzsicbCV6w/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg);"><section style="text-align: justify;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">1、不帮孩子解决自主思考的学习问题</span></strong><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">学习时遇到问题，第一时间要让孩子尝试自己解决。有的父母看孩子写作业时，比孩子还忙。孩子刚思考了2分钟，就赶紧讲解题思路；一个笔画写错了，马上要求孩子停下来，批评半小时……</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">这些父母为了孩子的学习付出了很多努力，但长期下来，孩子的成绩不但无法提高，还会形成一个坏习惯：父母不在身边，就无法独立完成作业。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">对孩子来说，自主学习的能力是非常重要的。如果父母事无巨细、亲力亲为，反而会扼杀孩子学习的主动性与自觉性。退后一步，给予孩子足够的空间，让他们意识到学习是自己的事，才能学会对自己的未来负责。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">2. 不帮孩子做能独立完成的事</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">很多父母出于疼爱孩子，对孩子的生活大包大揽，生怕孩子累着。其实，为人父母最难的，是懂得放手。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">让孩子学会独立，可以循序渐进：从自己吃饭、自己穿鞋到独立穿衣、做简单家务；从自己规划学习和玩耍时间，到安排自己的零花钱如何使用……趁早培养孩子的独立性，孩子未来才会走得更稳。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">3. 不帮孩子做能自己拿主意的决定</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">人这一生会面对很多的选择和问题，如果遇事都要求父母帮忙，又怎么能展翅高飞呢？</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">有格局的父母，会有意识地培养孩子自己做决定的能力。从选择穿什么衣服，到选择读什么专业、做什么样的工作，父母可以提出建议，但最终要鼓励孩子自己做出决定，并承担相应责任。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">把选择权交给孩子，孩子才会敢想敢拼，带着勇气走向更广阔的世界。</span></p></section></section><section style="transform: perspective(0px);-webkit-transform: perspective(0px);-moz-transform: perspective(0px);-o-transform: perspective(0px);transform-style: flat;box-sizing: border-box;"><section 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role="img" aria-label="插图"></svg></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;min-width: 5%;max-width: 100%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;align-self: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 29px;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;" nodeleaf=""></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: center;padding: 0px 0px 0px 13px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;margin: 0px 0px 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="background-color: rgba(255, 148, 148, 0.66);height: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;" role="img" aria-label="插图"></svg></section></section><section style="margin: 0px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100%;height: 5px;background-color: rgba(255, 148, 148, 0.4);box-sizing: border-box;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;" role="img" aria-label="插图"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p><section style="display: flex;width: 100%;flex-flow: column;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="z-index: 1;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;justify-content: center;display: flex;flex-flow: row;margin: 10px 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;width: auto;min-width: 5%;max-width: 100%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;align-self: flex-end;margin: 0px -8px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: flex;width: 100%;flex-flow: column;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="z-index: 1;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: 0px;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 22px;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;" nodeleaf=""></section></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;width: auto;align-self: flex-end;flex: 0 0 auto;background-color: rgb(255, 244, 242);min-width: 5%;max-width: 100%;height: auto;box-shadow: rgb(218, 218, 218) 0px 9px 9px -7px;border-style: solid;border-width: 2px;border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);padding: 8px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;box-sizing: border-box;"><section data-cacheurl="" data-remoteid="" style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;background-repeat: repeat;background-attachment: scroll;padding: 0px;background-size: 60.6645% !important;background-position: -2.10118% 38.0345% !important;box-sizing: border-box;background-image: url(https://bbs.221700.com/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/8QE6ibFHJYQ5wPBxavR48Cia4lhMjZiasdnF6IePSAWZguAs4ibRoeBOfsPZOXIhL8ugCYF3xllQiajLCfdzsicbCV6w/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg);"><section style="justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;margin: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;align-self: center;flex: 0 0 auto;min-width: 5%;max-width: 100%;height: auto;padding: 0px 7px 0px 12px;border-style: solid;border-width: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(255, 148, 148);box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">三不惯</span></strong></p></section><section style="margin: -11px 0px 0px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100%;height: 5px;background-color: rgba(255, 148, 148, 0.4);box-sizing: border-box;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;" role="img" aria-label="插图"></svg></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;align-self: center;flex: 0 0 auto;min-width: 5%;max-width: 100%;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 29px;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;" nodeleaf=""></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section data-cacheurl="" data-remoteid="" style="text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;margin: 0px;width: 100%;align-self: flex-start;background-size: 60.6645%;background-repeat: repeat;background-position: -2.10118% 38.0345%;background-attachment: scroll;padding: 20px 23px 11px;box-sizing: border-box;background-image: url(https://bbs.221700.com/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/8QE6ibFHJYQ5wPBxavR48Cia4lhMjZiasdnF6IePSAWZguAs4ibRoeBOfsPZOXIhL8ugCYF3xllQiajLCfdzsicbCV6w/640?wx_fmt=png&from=appmsg);"><section style="text-align: justify;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">1、不惯没有规矩</span></strong><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">没有规矩，不成方圆。教会孩子懂规矩，成为一个有原则、有底线的人，是非常重要的事情。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">有格局的父母，非常重视孩子的规矩意识。从小就会告诉孩子，什么是该做的，什么是不该做的。如果总是觉得孩子太小，不守规矩也无所谓，这样的纵容，反而会害了孩子。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">只有知敬畏、守规矩，才能成长为一个对国家和社会有益的人。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">2、不惯好逸恶劳</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">有的父母因为疼爱孩子，就什么事情都替孩子做，让孩子衣来伸手，饭来张口。然而，如果孩子养成了好逸恶劳的习惯，就会丧失上进心和责任心，今后很难在社会立足。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">有格局的家长， 不会溺爱孩子，而是以身作则，在自己的领域努力拼搏，有空就带着孩子做家务，一起锻炼身体，让孩子从小养成勤奋上进的好习惯。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">3、不惯哭闹耍赖</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">在一些公共场合，经常能见到这样的场景：有的孩子在地上打滚，非要父母买玩具才停止；有的孩子尖叫、大哭大闹，父母满足要求后才不闹。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">遇到这样的情况，父母不能总是因为孩子耍赖哭闹就心软、妥协。这会让孩子形成一个意识：只要大哭大闹，就能得到想要的一切。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span leaf="">教育孩子，父母一定要有自己的原则，要坚定地拒绝孩子不合理的要求，让他们明白大人的原则和底线。别让自己一时的纵容，毁了孩子的一生。</span></p></section></section><section style="transform: perspective(0px);-webkit-transform: perspective(0px);-moz-transform: perspective(0px);-o-transform: perspective(0px);transform-style: flat;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;margin: 0px 0px 10px;transform: rotateY(180deg);-webkit-transform: rotateY(180deg);-moz-transform: rotateY(180deg);-o-transform: rotateY(180deg);box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: 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