女生朋友圈发文“不随礼”,这届年轻人开始整顿份子钱了?
<p style="white-space: normal;text-align: left;margin-bottom: 0px;"></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">近日,有媒体报道</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">吉林延边一女生</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">为避免无效社交</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">在朋友圈发文</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">不参与普通同学随礼</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">对此,很多网友点赞:</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);">干得漂亮</span></strong></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);">这届年轻人开始整顿份子钱了!</span></strong></p><p><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: var(--articleFontsize);letter-spacing: 0.034em;"></span></section><section xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><section data-author="Wxeditor"><article data-id="65" data-items="0" data-use="1" data-author="Wxeditor" style="font-size:14px;margin:5px auto;"><blockquote style="margin-top: 0px;margin-bottom: 0px;padding: 20px 15px 15px 48px;border-width: 1px;border-top-style: solid;border-right-style: solid;border-bottom-style: solid;border-color: rgb(0, 187, 236);border-radius: 5px;line-height: 30px;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);background-image: url(https://bbs.221700.com/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/v4vz52CcB11ibGD4rMl7qABQbGHsHYzrAqd7Y5j2S6SpIibdQK4VpyNsh9GV25snTfc77dbofj42CGJzwsFaIPFQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg);background-position: 10px 11px;background-repeat: no-repeat;"><p style="border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">当事人小王表示:“当时马上到假期了,有很多认识的人结婚,其中有十年没联系过,今年才来加我联系方式的初中同学邀请去参加婚礼。觉得以后还会出现这种情况,而且自己本身很反感随礼这条习俗,就直接发朋友圈说清楚,同意我的想法的人不用多解释,不同意我想法的人也不会和我成为好朋友,这样以后不太熟的朋友就不会叫我去随礼了。”发出这条朋友圈后,小王表示目前还没有人让自己随礼。</span></p></blockquote></article></section></section></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">对此,</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.034em;">许多网友表示深有同感</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">“做了我想做不敢做的事”</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">也有网友表示没有必要发朋友圈</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">觉得没必要可以不去随礼</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">有的人发出邀请</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">也不一定完全是为了份子钱</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">只是出于尊重,图个热闹</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><br/></span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 116, 149);font-size: 17px;"><strong></strong></span></p><p><section style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 116, 149);font-size: 17px;"><strong>随份子</strong></span></section><section style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 116, 149);font-size: 17px;"><strong>年轻人为什么不愿了? </strong></span></section></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 116, 149);font-size: 17px;"><strong></strong></span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;">遇到类似问题的人并不少见</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">据媒体此前报道</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">今年国庆假期来临前</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">山东济南李女士的吐槽</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">引发了广泛关注与热议</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">李女士表示</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">从9月份开始</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">她几乎每周末都在参加婚礼</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">李女士感觉身心俱疲的同时</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">更为自己的钱包“担忧”</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">“我一个月工资只有5000元左右</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.034em;">,</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.034em;">9月份随礼已经随出去近3000元</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.034em;">……</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.034em;">好不容易有个小长假,</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.034em;">几乎全搭在酒席上了,</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">自己的旅游、休息计划</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">都被迫取消了。”</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">视频一发出</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">迅速引发了网友共鸣</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">五一、十一</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">还有即将到来的春节</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">对于现在的年轻人来说</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">最怕“百年”都不联系的朋友</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">“突然地问候”</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">“最近过得怎么样了?”</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">没说几句话</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">突然抛出一张电子请帖</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">“诚挚邀请您来参加我们的婚礼”</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><br/></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">新人办婚礼</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">亲朋好友送上红包</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">是习俗也是礼仪</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">既能增加喜庆的气氛</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">也能表达对新人的美好祝愿</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">但不知从何时起</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">随礼被攀比功利之心绑架</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">份子钱水涨船高</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">原本美好的份子钱</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">已然成为年轻人头上的“紧箍”</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"></p><p><section style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 116, 149);font-size: 17px;"><strong>整顿“份子钱”</strong></span></section><section style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 116, 149);font-size: 17px;"><strong>并非拒绝“人情味”</strong></span></section></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 116, 149);font-size: 17px;"><strong></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">这些年来,网络上关于</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">“不随份子”</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">“让份子钱回归本义”的讨论</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">每每上热搜</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">但真正要把份子钱“打”下来</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">实现礼金与情谊的</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">双向奔赴却又很难</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><br style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">其实,大众介意的</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">不是随份子这个习俗本身</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">而是向自己觉得没必要的人</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">随份子这个现实</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(214, 168, 65);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">年轻人整顿份子钱</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(214, 168, 65);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">也不是拒绝人情味儿</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(214, 168, 65);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">而是拒绝人情的金钱化</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">随份子并非陋习</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">关键在于我们怎么“随”</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"></p><p style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 14px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">图片来源:视觉中国</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(214, 168, 65);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">回归本义</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(214, 168, 65);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">让“金钱味儿”</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">淡一些</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">份子钱本是为了表达心意和祝愿</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">不在于多少,而在于真心</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">当远在千里之外的好友</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.034em;">赶来参加婚礼</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">当许久未见的同窗</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.034em;">共赴一场婚宴</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">对新人而言</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">沉甸甸的情谊就是最贵的份子钱</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(214, 168, 65);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">花些心思</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(214, 168, 65);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">让“人情味儿”浓一些</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">礼金之外</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.034em;">还有更多载体值得尝试</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">精心挑选的礼物</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.034em;">会让祝福更长久</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">“以工代礼”</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.034em;">能让情谊更浓</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">会做蛋糕的做个蛋糕</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">会化妆的帮忙化妆</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">跑跑腿、出点力</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">这样的随礼形式能让婚礼更热闹</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">也能让人和人的关系更亲密</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><br/></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">此外<br/></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">一些新人也开始拒绝收份子钱</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">杭州一对新人</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">向未婚亲朋好友提供“礼金互免卡”</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">广东茂名一对新人</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">给红包撕个角表示收到祝福</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">有年轻人开始举办</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">只有双方父母参加</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">或只有少数亲属参加的简单婚礼</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">主动把大部分礼金挡在门外</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">……</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">这些做法得到了很多网友的赞赏</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><br/></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(214, 168, 65);">不以礼金多少来衡量情感</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(214, 168, 65);">不以随礼方式去维护情感</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(214, 168, 65);">把感情联络放到日常</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(214, 168, 65);"><span style="font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">也让每一次随份子</span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;">都成为</span></span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);">新人和亲朋好友的双向奔赴</span></strong></span></p><p style="display: none;"><mp-style-type data-value="3"></mp-style-type></p><p style="color:#999;font-size:.8em;margin-top:1em">转载声明:本文转载自人民网</p><p><br/></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="//bbs.221700.com/source/plugin/wcn_editor/public/wcn_editor_fit.css?v134_w7B" id="wcn_editor_css"/> 礼尚往来,无利息存款,还有不还礼的你也不能怎么滴他 这样也挺好 看心情 礼尚往来 礼尚往来,都会还的 礼尚往来 年轻人有年轻人色思维方式
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