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送父母进养老院，算是“不孝”吗？

<section data-role="outer" label="edit by 135editor"><p style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">近日，“老两口退休工资1万2被女儿送养老院”登上热搜。重庆的陈大爷称，女儿强迫他和老伴住养老院，很不自由，吃不好饭，睡不着觉。想搬出去，却遭到女儿拒绝。老两口每个月退休工资有12000元，原来有一栋房子，住进养老院后所有的财产都给了女儿。</span></p><p style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">此事在网络上引发了热烈讨论。送父母进养老院就是不孝顺吗？你是否愿意在养老院度过晚年？澎湃问吧的网友们发表了他们的见解。</span></p><section class="channels_iframe_wrp wxw_wechannel_card_not_horizontal"><mp-common-videosnap class="js_uneditable custom_select_card channels_iframe videosnap_video_iframe" data-pluginname="mpvideosnap" data-url="https://findermp.video.qq.com/251/20304/stodownload?encfilekey=rjD5jyTuFrIpZ2ibE8T7YmwgiahniaXswqzdX7vBgd9j5tNuy3eFsqH8TTKfNmKMUIGwnothQxo4DYSXwlWiaLOcMtsnJG26sWZLApicjzVOoZY3MH5T9rpXkWg&bizid=1023&dotrans=0&hy=SH&idx=1&m=&scene=0&token=x5Y29zUxcibA16wO8WuqoINlHsuLMBoS0Xc5Z8faA8p8uVXPtMhWCG4hicDteE5BOV2lQuHDqXdiaE" data-headimgurl="http://wx.qlogo.cn/finderhead/icN84VSRfcIKqRUEps6ZcnVjzdwc8ExY5CY5Sz2A39ZM/0" data-username="v2_060000231003b20faec8c6e1801ac5d5ce05e93cb07775819f208602f94be2007aa978ccc4a6@finder" data-nickname="澎湃问吧" data-desc="近日，“老两口退休工资1万2被女儿送养老院“冲上热搜。视频中，重庆陈大爷称，自己女儿强迫他和老伴住养老院，很不自由，吃不好睡不着。想搬出去，却遭到女儿拒绝。老两口每个月退休工资有12000元，原来有套房子卖了，住进养老院后所有的财产都给了女儿。此事引发网友热议。送父母去养老院是否算不孝？你能接受老了进养老院吗？评论区聊聊你的看法。#养老 #孝顺 #养老院 #老年生活 #儿女 #退休 #孤独 #父母 " data-nonceid="14077089086171118114" data-type="video" data-mediatype="undefined" data-authiconurl="https://dldir1v6.qq.com/weixin/checkresupdate/icons_filled_channels_authentication_enterprise_a2658032368245639e666fb11533a600.png" data-from="new" data-width="1080" data-height="1920" data-id="export/UzFfAgtgekIEAQAAAAAA4CMTMRRvrgAAAAstQy6ubaLX4KHWvLEZgBPE_6IIaRkLPrSGzNPgMIsOoeZ-vtJS6Tj0yQpFTecE" data-isdisabled="0" data-errortips=""></mp-common-videosnap></section><section class="channels_iframe_wrp"><br/></section><section data-role="title" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="104485" data-color="#4f81bd" style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><section style="margin: 20px 8px 10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;visibility: visible;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: flex-start;visibility: visible;"><section data-md5="16d17" style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(139, 207, 224);visibility: visible;"><section data-md5="16d17" style="margin-top: -1px;margin-bottom: -1px;outline: 0px;background: rgba(199, 235, 251, 0.5);visibility: visible;transform: translate(9px, 8px);-webkit-transform: translate(9px, 8px);-moz-transform: translate(9px, 8px);-o-transform: translate(9px, 8px);"><section data-md5="16d17" style="padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;outline: 0px;background: rgb(199, 235, 251);visibility: visible;transform: translate(-4px, -4px);"><section data-md5="16d17" style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 28px;text-align: justify;visibility: visible;"><p data-md5="16d17" style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;">“送父母进养老院是迫于无奈</strong><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;">”</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 01&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong><br/></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@娜曼蒂克：</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">看了详细报道，两个老人都是失能老人，大爷坐轮椅，老太太是阿尔茨海默症患者。之前请了几个保姆都做不长，辞职了。女儿又是独生子女，要上班和照顾孩子，说实话确实很难，除非她愿意做全职女儿。</span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 02&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;cursor: pointer;transition: none 0s ease 0s;touch-action: manipulation;line-height: 18px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">LINDAAA</span></strong></span><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">不算不孝吧，真正的不孝顺是拿走父母的积蓄，养老院的钱都不愿意付，任由自生自灭。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">-&nbsp;03&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">澎湃网友e63Evq</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">在中国，去养老院是迫不得已，因为老人也不想拖累子女。但谁不想儿女绕膝？所以中国人活得很累，很多传统的东西也渐行渐远。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 04&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong></span><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></strong></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">张三链子</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">独生子女结婚生子后，需要伺候四位老人外加孩子，能活着就不错了。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 05&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong></span><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></strong></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">飞马长歌</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">跟</span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">同龄人在一起，共同语言会更多一些，认同感强些，代沟少些。高级点的养老院，有专业的养老服务和医护陪护，饮食也是专为老人烧的。子女能有更多精力去赚钱，可以常去看望老人，偶尔把老人接回家住一段时日。</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9);font-size: var(--articleFontsize);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 06&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong></span><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></strong></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">我就不知道了‍</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">有些老年人很难相处，只能送养老院。特别精神方面有问题的老人，让值得信任的专业人士来伺候不失为上策。年轻人很忙，真的没功夫搭理的。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 07&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong></span><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></strong></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">澎湃网友6bAfUf</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">我能接受去养老院。平心静气地想，如果孩子有自己的事业要忙，有自己的子女要教育，有自己的家庭和生活，我怎么可能会忍心让TA抛弃这些来专门照顾我？抚育孩子长大成人，图的不就是让孩子有稳定的收入，幸福的家庭，让他们有能力延续自己的后代吗？我前半生为之付出一切，到老了难道要一切归零吗？所以，照顾好自己，不要成为任何人的负担，真有那一天，随缘就好嘛。</span></section><p style="text-align:center;"></p><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section data-role="title" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="104485" data-color="#4f81bd" style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><section style="margin: 20px 8px 10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;visibility: visible;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: flex-start;visibility: visible;"><section data-md5="16d17" style="margin-bottom: -4px;margin-left: auto;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;width: 4px;height: 4px;background: rgb(139, 207, 224);visibility: visible;transform: translate(8px, 0px);"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></section><section data-md5="16d17" style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(139, 207, 224);visibility: visible;"><section data-md5="16d17" style="margin-top: -1px;margin-bottom: -1px;outline: 0px;background: rgba(199, 235, 251, 0.5);visibility: visible;transform: translate(9px, 8px);-webkit-transform: translate(9px, 8px);-moz-transform: translate(9px, 8px);-o-transform: translate(9px, 8px);"><section data-md5="16d17" style="padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;outline: 0px;background: rgb(199, 235, 251);visibility: visible;transform: translate(-4px, -4px);"><section data-md5="16d17" style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 28px;text-align: justify;visibility: visible;"><p data-md5="16d17" style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;">“吃住不自由，送养老院有违孝道</strong><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;">”</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;"></span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: var(--articleFontsize);visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 08&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;cursor: pointer;transition: none 0s ease 0s;touch-action: manipulation;line-height: 18px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;cursor: pointer;transition: none 0s ease 0s;touch-action: manipulation;line-height: 18px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">乌龙</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;cursor: pointer;transition: none 0s ease 0s;touch-action: manipulation;line-height: 18px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">不能接受去养老院。不自由是一方面，还有就是人老了会喜欢热闹和活力，身边充斥死亡和衰老的氛围会让人感到恐惧的。</span></p><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 09 -</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong></span><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></strong></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">Nyssa</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">养老院说白了就是一个集体宿舍，吃住都不自在，不自由，不如请人定时到家里护理老人。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 10&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@</span></strong><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">居易俟动</span></strong><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;font-family: sans-serif;">没有子女看护的话，住在养老院的老人就是弱势群体。</span><span style="color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;font-family: sans-serif;">寿终正寝，就是躺在自家床上安安静静地走。</span><span style="color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;font-family: sans-serif;">这种事情和房子数量无关，仅关乎子女而已。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9);font-size: var(--articleFontsize);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 11&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@自由摇滚</span></strong><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">不能接受，父母养我小，我应养父母老！可以请保姆。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 12&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@</span></strong><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">谋克敦</span></strong><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">把父母送养老院就是不孝，父</span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">母到晚年最大的快乐就是和亲人在一起。</span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 13&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@正宗四川汉子</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">现在的人嘴里说的孝敬父母简直不能当真。最不明白的是儿女不孝，父母却还要给儿女买房、买车、带孙。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><p style="text-align:center;"></p><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);text-align: center;visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);text-align: left;font-size: 16px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section data-role="title" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="104485" data-color="#4f81bd" style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><section style="margin: 20px 8px 10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;visibility: visible;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: flex-start;visibility: visible;"><section data-md5="16d17" style="margin-bottom: -4px;margin-left: auto;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;width: 4px;height: 4px;background: rgb(139, 207, 224);visibility: visible;transform: translate(8px, 0px);"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></section><section data-md5="16d17" style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(139, 207, 224);visibility: visible;"><section data-md5="16d17" style="margin-top: -1px;margin-bottom: -1px;outline: 0px;background: rgba(199, 235, 251, 0.5);visibility: visible;transform: translate(9px, 8px);-webkit-transform: translate(9px, 8px);-moz-transform: translate(9px, 8px);-o-transform: translate(9px, 8px);"><section data-md5="16d17" style="padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;outline: 0px;background: rgb(199, 235, 251);visibility: visible;transform: translate(-4px, -4px);"><section data-md5="16d17" style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 28px;text-align: justify;visibility: visible;"><p data-md5="16d17" style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;">“养儿不为防老，观念需不断更新</strong><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;">”</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 14&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@</span></strong><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">伊丽莎白的鸭</span></strong><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">为啥人没走，所有财产都给了女儿？每个老人应该做好养老规划，想自由就留好房子和钱，自己请护工在家住。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 15&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong></span><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></strong></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@一 懒得胡涂</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">唯物主义不是强调存在即真理吗？所以我虽然不喜欢去养老院，但是也不能说把父母送去养老院的子女都不孝。但是我更加希望那些一天到晚研究高科技的专家们，多发明一些适合家用的机器人。那些失去自理能力的老弱病残，可能需要24小时不间断地照顾，且不说人心向恶，成天不休不眠地照顾，任何人都受不了，这时候就需要能够照顾病人的机器人了，而且机器人起码不会伤害主人。</span><span style="color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;font-family: sans-serif;">更关键的是，从已有报道来看，机器人的价格在3到5万左右，即使更贵一点，多数人也乐于采用</span><span style="color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;font-family: sans-serif;">。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 16 -</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@叶可阳的新闻</span></strong><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;font-family: sans-serif;">我的观点是，从有经济能力开始，每个人就应该为自己人生的每一个阶段负责。</span></section><p style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">我们这一代是这个思想的崛起时期，“养儿防老”观念在逐渐淡漠，但是上一辈并不怎么为自己的养老考虑，把老年依靠在孩子身上，所以去养老院这件事变成儿女的选择而非父母自己的选择。</span></p><p style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">就题论题，可以先送父母去养老院住一段时间，比如半年之类的，再让父母自己决定。</span></p><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">- 17&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong></span><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></strong></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">七月宋</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">养老院必然有它的市场需求。养儿防老的传统思想已经在逐渐被打破。父母也不一定有跟儿女同住或者被照顾的需求，比起跟无话可说的、不闻不问的儿女孤独地住在一起，很多老人更喜欢跟同龄人多、对自己照顾有加的养老院。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 30px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;">-&nbsp;18&nbsp;-</span></strong></strong></strong></span></strong></span></strong><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">@Puzz康</span></strong><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;text-align: left;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">：</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;">我可以接受找个好点的养老院，五星级酒店硬件、私人医护、山水风景好就很完美。我觉得问题在于那个空间缺失情感的连接，环境太闭塞。所以还是努力赚钱，努力保持健康吧，老了也要保持自己的社交圈，不要太依赖小孩。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 20px;text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(34, 34, 34);visibility: visible;line-height: 1.75em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(76, 76, 76);font-size: 16px;text-align: left;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;font-family: sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;font-size: 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我的秋天 发表于 2023-10-20 11:00

老年人去养老院再过些时间会更多
计划生育时代的独生子女
两个孩子养四个老人
不去养老院怎么办

北极狐 发表于 2023-10-20 22:34

养儿防老意义在哪

王艳， 发表于 2023-10-21 02:00

送父母去养老院，这是不孝的，这是要下地狱的，

华哥在吗 发表于 2023-10-21 11:03

养儿防老意义在哪

《心静》 发表于 2023-10-21 14:11

送养老院是正常现象，养老院里吃饭是现成的，不用自己做饭了

致青春@！ 发表于 2023-10-21 19:41

送父母进养老院可能是迫于无奈吧

没错，就是我 发表于 2023-10-21 21:39

任何事情得一分为二看待。

谷雨夜 发表于 2023-10-22 17:05

这能怪百姓？

谷雨夜 发表于 2023-10-22 17:06

以前的计划生育犯的罪就应该又这些受害者承担？

谷雨夜 发表于 2023-10-22 17:06

现在两个人要养四个老人

谷雨夜 发表于 2023-10-22 17:07

这明显是种道德绑架

谷雨夜 发表于 2023-10-22 17:08

如果一个人的工资能养7个人以上，那么就可以不送养老院

谷雨夜 发表于 2023-10-22 17:08

都是独生子女政策给害的

谷雨夜 发表于 2023-10-28 18:06

这也算没有办法的办法

查看完整版本: 送父母进养老院，算是“不孝”吗？